This week was a little hard for my momma. She lost people she cared deeply about. In my momma's profession, losing people happens with a a bit more frequency than one would imagine. She, say's "that only serves to reminder her to love more honestly."
One of the people that passed was also my friend. He was my momma's co-worker; Kevin, a gentle, kind and compassionate man. I first met Kevin when momma would take me to say "hi" to her co-workers. Kevin enjoyed spending time with me, and he thought that I was a good candidate for becoming a therapy dog, so a therapy dog I became! Throughout the years, my momma would bring me to her place of work, a large hospital, where Kevin would often "baby sit" me. He would take me to see patients and he would read to them while I sat by his side. Kevin would also take me to the staff break rooms in the various units of the hospital. I'd visit some of momma's co-workers, getting petted and fawned over while I nibbled on their apple slices. When, at the end of the day, Kevin would return me to momma I'd have an "I've been good today" happy face sticker stuck on my therapy badge. Momma peels off these stickers and places them in a date book along with a little handwritten note where she records what I did that day.
When momma took me to Kevin's office, he elected to share me with patients and his and momma's co-workers. He understood and responded to the ebb and flow of humans needing doggy cuddles and doggies needing human cuddles. Kevin helped to teach my momma balance... that by sharing the things you most love with the world, the world will give you more love in return.
Each day I will thank the universe for sharing Kevin with me, and I will strive to be more generous in showing my love to others as a way to honor my friend.
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You always remind me of life's best lessons. Condolences to your momma.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear about Kevin. It seems he was your good friend as well as your momma's. Love to you both and to Kevin's family and friends.
ReplyDelete*hugs* for you and your momma right now!
ReplyDeleteFrom Forever Ginger: Dear Mattie, Thank you for the beautiful post. My mom is very chocked up right now. My mom and I would like to say how sorry we are about the passing of your friend, Kevin. He sounds like he was such a caring and wonderful human. I just read your last 2 posts and want to thank you for the beautiful words of truth. Your post about "having what we need" could not have come at a better time for my mom. Thank you for reminding us of what is really important. May the love of all those who know you and your mom give her comfort during this time. We love you Mattie and we love your mom for sharing you with us. Forever Ginger
ReplyDeleteYou and your mom and family are extrodinary for all that you do to help those in need. I am very sorry about you and your moms friend Kevin. Our thoughts our with you at this time. Thank for reminding us of what is important. I hope your mom finds comfort at this time and we send our loves and thoughts at this time.
ReplyDeleteI feel like I know Kevin after your blog - what a nice tribute to his memory! Sorry for your loss. I bet Kevin is surrounded by pets at the bridge - whether he ever had any of his own or not.
ReplyDeleteDarling Mattie
ReplyDeleteYour bloggy always fills me with hope and wonder. I am sorry that you and Momma have lost Kevin but he will live on in your hearts forever.
Kisses and huggies,
Jazzy XXXX
Woof! Woof! We are very sorry for your mom's friend. Lots of Golden Thanks for enlightening us what is important. Lots of Golden Woofs, Sugar
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